2018 Goals

Finance

  1. 1 Fucking K

Fitness

  1. 70 KG

Relationship

  1. 12 Birds – JanuaryX1

Daily habits

  1. Read 50 pages and write 500 words
  2. Cold calling 10 prospects
  3. Cold emailing 10 potential companies
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A Journey to Be More Focus

I know for a fact that my attention gets scattered easily. And thus in order to make my business works better and other areas in my life in general. I decided to start an experiment to find out how can I improve my time on focus.

After a dinner discussion with my doctor sis, I have some insight.

I didn’t plan my time right. The way she plans her time is that she can evaluate how much time does a task cost and fit the task into a specific time slot.
I aimed too high. I do thing in a large scale. For example, I decided to draft a SEO package for my company, but I failed miserably. Why? Because I didn’t have an specific end goal and I didn’t divide the task into actionable steps.
Set a dead line for each task
Set a least two hours of absolutely focus time. It means no distraction at all. Just do the work.

So I’m going to plan my future week using the above principle. I take my life seriously.

DG 2/26~3/4

So I’m going to count how many approaches I need to get a lay in the following posts. Also, I’m going to note down the stats and things I can improve on.

2/26 – 10 approaches 1 number CH

Not a good day, two girls said they get a boyfriend so I ejected.

2/27 – 7 approaches 0 number EZ

Even worse, my usual venue was filled with charity people and salespeople, so I decided to switch venue to another popular yet hard to approach.

Meltdown 2018/2/2

2 Am on 2018/2/2, I had a meltdown. I just had a 2 hours phone call with my friend Anthony, and he hung up on me after I lamented for over an hour. I appreciated the effort he put in to save me from breaking down, but he failed. Nobody could.

I felt like a sinking ship. Or worse, an aimless boat drifted in darkness caused by storms and thunder.

I couldn’t breathe.

This all started from a discussion with my boss, Ryan. The call was short, lasting only 20 minutes. And the result wasn’t surprising neither. I got demoted. The job wasn’t prestige, to begin with; however, the pain was that I believed I could levitate myself with this job. I got such huge expectation that I could become a location independent nomand after doing this job for like 6 months.

But was it? Was the situation that bad that had to feel sorry for me for over 3 hours.

I didn’t think so.

The point that it made me sad was I felt like me, as a human being, got rejected due to my limitation, namely English writing. And, of course, the decrease in salary.

Obviously, at this moment, there are tons of this I can improve on. Perhaps earn some money on the side.

Cold emailing 10 marketing companies every day
Learn to write and speak English better
Read 50 pages a day
Write 500 words a day
Get as much as value from copywriting courses as you can
Cold calling 10 potential clients
Improve landing page from Axel Global
So thinking about it, the situation isn’t as bad as I imagine.

 

Sampson and the Wizard 書評

  •  Your prior object is to accomplish that which will make you the happiest in the long term. If you are unaware of what this is, find out.

BD在他的UM中說過,男人的快樂在於金錢和女人。而我現在很努力地朝這兩個目標邁進,金錢方面目前目標是養活我自己,在2017/06/01前達到月收入1000USD ;而女人部份則是經由Daygame或Online dating達到在二個禮拜之內得到二個女人的能力。

  • Success in one area requires many different reasons for accomplishment, not just one

雖然已經知道這個道理,我還是對這個準則很有興趣。在書中沒有詳細解釋,不過我的解讀是更身曾的解析你的慾望。

  • Most of what you have been told is wrong

不意外

  • Acknowledge the way the real world works in real life, even if it is unpleasant to do so, regardless of your own bias.
  • You are either successful as you define success, or you are unhappy to some degree. There is no third option.

聽起來像句fight club的格言。

  • A few concentration years of pure work and painful sacrifice will prevent you from toiling for a lifetime.

這句話驗證在我pick up的旅程上。

  • Emulate those who were successful before you, but be careful who you choose.

Doing it.

  • Risk is mandatory for success, but only after doing everything possible to put the odds in your favor before the attempt.
  • If you do not routinely address all key area of your life, your most important area will cease to bring you happiness.

是真是假不知道,但是現在沒有一個領域是我滿意的。經濟方面沒有收入,但是月收入在明年達到六萬。同時daygame技巧提升到可以在兩個禮拜得到二個女人的能力。體重增加到65公斤。

BD 的堅信

社會教導你的不一定是正確的。追求長期快樂是人生唯一目標。

如果你對九條玉律有興趣,你可以考慮購買此書。

Sampson and the Wizard

Daygame by Tom Torero 書評

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  Daygame by Tom Torero 書評

Tom 是我進入Daygame的導師,他算是早期研究Daygame的一員。(還有London Daygame和Nick Krauser)從他的「Beginner Daygame」(停售)到他後來的「Street Hustle」都是很好的學習素材。同時,Tom的生活也是我所冀望的,依靠經營網站和部落格的營收到各個國家旅行,與各地女人產生親密關係,用雙眼看著這世界。

Daygame簡單來說就是Tom從牛津大學的書呆子變成知名教練的過程,雖然內容不像The Game一樣目眩,但是其中的經驗也令人十分敬佩。在這本書基本上是Tom短短二年之內的lay-report,內容大同小異,讀起來還是讓人覺得興奮。故事大多發生在倫敦,Tom在接下來幾年乘著飛機,遊歷四國,期中的故事寫在Torero Travel。

我最喜歡Tom的就是關於他Indirect-direct game;Indirect但是顯露出你的意圖,Direct但是其中的banter卻是讓女生了解你的武器。簡單講述一下Daygame 的model:

Open

像是"我覺你很可愛"或"你有打火機嗎?"

Stacking

假設女生的來歷、她從哪裡來、她的工作是甚麼、她現在在做什麼、她是怎麼樣的一個人、說故事。除此之外記得戲弄、挑戰她的答案。簡而言之不要問問題,直接形容她的現狀。

Vibing

延伸她丟出來的話題(我從事法律工作,我去過英國…)、使她投入對話、等待上勾點。

Close

拿到電話號碼或是instadate。

理想過程大約為十分鐘左右。

Tom在這本書中還有提到許多技巧,雖然只有點到為止,不過對想入門的人來說這是本很有趣的回憶錄。Tom的寫作讀起來非常順眼,也可以一瞥影響其人格的是物語書籍。總而言之,這本書不但可以學習到Daygame大致的面貌(Textin, Dating, inner game…),也可以看到其中的辛苦和獎勵。

如果你覺得這本書可以幫助你或是博君一笑,你可以考慮購買。

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